Why can't we get any results around here?
Why don't they listen to me? Why can't I just stop??
I'm in a lose-lose situation.
I want them them to know me for who I AM.
If you are a committed couple, or family that wants to create healthy and happy results, you have come to the right place. Get what you have always wanted by learning this simple method, now known as HARMONIZE IT™ offered by the Health Share Clinic.
Does this sound familiar? "Can't this wait? I don't have time to talk!" (avoidance) "I wouldn't have done that if HE had just listened." (finger-pointing) “They make me so mad!" (blame) “Well, SORRR-Y! I won't even ASK you next time." (quick fixes) "I just don't know how to love him/her." (internal confusion)
What if you heard these empathetic responses instead? "I want to hear what you have to say, but can we do this after I'm finished? (scheduling) "I did that because I needed attention from you." (ownership) "I hear you don't need for me to joke about this." (active listening) "What would you like to me to do next time?" (appreciative questioning) "I know how to make our relationship extraordinary!" (actions based on vision)
If you're stuck, it's because you THINK you have run out of opportunities. |
Here is what people are experiencing... Just think of the results...
Destructive habits - gone!
Long-term agreements made quickly, without anger
HERE ARE SOME OF THE BENEFITS YOU CAN ACHIEVE: See your loved ones actively listening to you. Understand the postitive intention beneath any destructive behavior. Turn apathy into empathy in less than 10 minutes. - Replace blame, shame and finger-pointing with effective requests.
- See problems presenting themselves as opportunities for living your vision.
- Create family and life results that produce a sense of purpose.
We can meet the needs of everyone involved... but it's not gonna work if it's MY WAY. |
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GRADE SCHOOLS
Explore our in-school training program for 5th graders, based on the game of KICK BALL! This is a peer-mediation program that brings passive-aggressive behaviors OUT in the open.
BUSINESSES
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Happy and healthy families make productive employees!
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