Are your clients saying the following?

 

Why can't we get any results around here? 

Why don't they listen to me?

Why can't I just stop??
I'm in a lose-lose situation.

I want them them to know me for who I AM.

 

It's time to give them a tool for life.

 

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Does this sound familiar? "Can't this wait? I don't have time to talk!" (avoidance) "I wouldn't have done that if HE had just listened." (finger-pointing) “They make me so mad!" (blame) “Well, SORRR-Y! I won't even ASK you next time." (quick fixes) "I just don't know how to love him/her." (internal confusion)   What if you heard these empathetic responses instead? "I want to hear what you have to say, but can we do this after I'm finished? (scheduling) "I did that because I needed attention from you." (ownership) "I hear you don't need for me to joke about this." (active listening) "What would you like to me to do next time?" (appreciative questioning) "I know how to make our relationship extraordinary!" (actions based on vision)     Take your clients from THINKING victim-based and limited thoughts and help them produce limitless thoughts.

 

Your clients experience:

• No drawn-out counseling or talk-based therapy when it comes to changing behaviors. This is just a three hour training session that can later be supported through ongoing facilitative sessions, if your client prefers.
• A tool to replace destructive habits with life skills.
• Long-term agreements made with others quickly, without anger.   

HERE ARE SOME OF THE BENEFITS YOUR CLIENTS CAN ACHIEVE:    Family members actively listening. Parents understanding the postitive intention beneath ANY destructive behavior. Families turning apathy into empathy in less than 10 minutes. Couples and parents replacing blame, shame and finger-pointing with effective requests.   We can meet the needs of everyone involved... but it's not gonna work if it's MY WAY.    View Activity Book >